Sunday, January 30, 2011

How a bad taste in music really CAN ruin a relationship

Ever wondered why a relationship may have ended on the wrong note?

The answer could be quite simple: it's because of your taste in music.

According to a new study music actually predicts sexual attraction. The most recent issue of Psychology of Music takes a close look at the connection between identity, music and what makes people 'click'.

Elvis Presley performing Kid Rock at a concert for the Indianapolis 500 auto race at Indianapolis Motor Speedway

Rock 'n' roll: If you like the blues you're more likely to be liberal but if you're into heavy metal you're rebellious with strong social awareness

This had led the LA Weekly blog to explore what it is about why we like, what we like, and perhaps more importantly, how this can make or break a relationship.

During adolescence, music becomes a symbol of your identity to help you belong.

Research duo North and Hargraves say that music functions as a 'badge' which people use to not only judge others but at the same time, to express their own ideas.

For example the child who wants to appear rebellious picks music that seems like it's made by people who rebel.

This symbol of identity also helps you strike a balance between belonging but also being original.

Classic: Guys are found to love girls who are into classical music but the same cannot be said for the reverse

Classic: Guys are found to love girls who are into classical music but the same cannot be said for the reverse

You do this by liking a genre that your friends like, but to try and stand out while not becoming a total outcast, you find a performer within that genre which no-one else knows about.

Eventually however, you get into music that reflects your values.

Researchers believe that rock is associated with social awareness and rebelliousness while pop is connected to values about gender roles and conformity.

Scholars Rentfrow and Gosling discovered that people who like blues, jazz, classical, and folk are liberal and more open to experiences.

The blog also points to a study which found that a woman's devotion to country music diminishes her attractiveness to a potential male mate and a man's interest in country music make him less attractive to women.

But devotion to classical music and heavy metal rock has a different effect depending on if you're a man or a woman.

The study in the Communication Research journal says: 'A date's devotion to country music was found to diminish attraction in respondents of both genders.

'In contrast, devotion to classical music and to heavy metal rock proved to be gender specific.

'Fascination with heavy metal rock greatly enhanced the appeal of men, but it proved detrimental to that of women.

'Adoration of classical music produced the reverse consequences.

'It tended to facilitate the appeal of women, but to diminish that of men.

It also found that men were more strongly attracted to women with whom they shared musical tastes.

But for women, this had only a 'negligible effect' on their attraction to men.

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